What do you expect when you go to services on the High Holidays?

Expecting to “get something” is a good thing. You SHOULD expect to be different at the end of any experience than you were at the beginning. Expectations should be HIGH for the HIGH Holidays. 

At Makom Kadosh, we do our part to create services for these  that are compelling, not boring. Casual, questioning, relevant, participatory, accessible. These holy days are filled with great expectations.  They’re not called the Days of Awe, Yamim Nora’im ימים נוראים‎, for nothing!

People complain that services they’ve been to are too long, and there are lots of other complaints. We’ve been there to!  “Services are so top-down.” “We just sit there while some guys read the Torah.” “I never get an aliyah.” “It’s not relevant.” “I don’t understand Hebrew.” “I don’t believe in God, so going to services is such hypocrisy.”

Come and experience the Yamim Nora’im, the Days of Awe-some with us! Bring your doubts, your frustrations. Bring an open mind that there can be something different.

AND…truthfully, as with many things, it’s hard to “get something” if there is absolutely no preparation.

So this year, get ready for the High Holidays, the Days of Awe-some. Read. Think. Talk. Feel. Connect.

 

SOME SUGGESTIONS:

Talk to important people in your life. Do you need to acknowledge someone? Where did you forget to say thank you, I’m sorry, I need you, or this isn’t working anymore, or, this is working better than I thought possible? It’s not too late.

Keep a forgiveness journal, or an at-one-ment journal, or a forgiveness journal,  between Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur. I know what you’re saying: I HATE JOURNALING. I also hate journaling. Then write, in some other way, about how you are feeling. Let it all out on paper. Then, before Rosh Hashanah, read it. Or burn it. Or both.

Read about Elul and the role of preparing, Rosh Hashanah, spiritual preparation for adults and children. You know how to work the internet! Ask the Google for something to read about the holidays.

Cook some new holiday foods. Recipes here and here.

Read a classic book about preparing for the Days of Awe-some:

This is Real and You Are Completely Unprepared, by Alan Lew (well, you probably don’t have enough time to finish this….just start with the section on Rosh Hashanah and keep going…)

Days of Awe, by S.Y. Agnon

Talk to a rabbi if you have questions.